I just wanted to share... With whatever readers I have... a small piece of advice that I'd given recently. This will be a short post, but maybe worthwhile. I personally connect to this a lot and it helps me when I'm facing a problem, for the most part. So here it is:
Instead of complaining about the things that you can't change, fix the things you can.
This basically means, don't dread the past. Sitting there wishing something didn't happen isn't going to reverse time. What's done is done. You can feel angry about it. Or upset, or depressed or whatever. But don't just sit there and mope. Get up, and instead of sulking about the past, alter your present to affect the future. If someone told your friend something you didn't want them to tell, don't whine about it. Be angry. Feel betrayed. But go and do something about it so it doesn't get worse and things can turn around.
Being miserable isn't going to make things any happier.
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