So, currently trending on Twitter is "If I Die Tomorrow". I find it incredibly appropriate because of the sudden and spontaneous immense appreciation for my friends today. I am also grateful for my family, although they can be a handful sometimes, but the thing is, that to me, friendship is sometimes more. I feel like family is "forced" to love you. They're not exactly forced, they don't really HAVE to, but to be honest, if you went to the same school as your sibling, would you befriend them? If your parent were a coworker or your teacher, would you like them? I know that a lot of people would argue this statement, but it's personally how I feel. But friends, on the other hand, are a different matter. They aren't forced to be with you. That's their choice. That's what they do, just because they love you, not because they live with you. So, today, nothing exactly "happened", but I just started thinking, and realized that I owe some of my friends an incredible debt, just because of everything they've ever done for me, and how many smiles they put on my face every single day. So, although the chance is small, anything's possible; If I die tomorrow, I want a certain few people to know what they mean to me.
#1: First, there's my friend in which I spend EVERY SIBGLE DAY with. I'm not going to say names, but if you are these people, you'll be able to tell. Also, the number I do this in are not in any specific order. Anyway, I want to tell this one person that the thing that I appreciate her most for is always and forever standing right by my side. No, not only does she help me when things are wrong, but is literally RIGHT by my actual side as we're walking from class to class. There is never a time when I cannot trust her to be there. And I thank her for that. I can't thank her enough for that. We all need someone like that in our life. I'm glad to day that I do.
#2 This person (who I know for a fact is reading this) I thank most for basically supporting everything. She puts up with my crazy, annoying antics most days. I've known her for a little over a year now, and throughout the entire journey, there's no one that has been there more than she has. She's listened to my problems, stalked me, and we talk every single day. I can't thank her enough for just being there, and supporting and helping me in everything. She's my "well rounded" friend, the one that's good for everything. A laugh when you need it, a shoulder to cry on, or a stand for support. She is who she is. There's no one else like her, exactly.
#3 I want to tell this one person that the thing I most appreciate is their advice, and words of kindness. In addition to being such a fun person, I can always trust them to help me when I need it, and that's one of the most important things a friend can do. If you can't trust them, than what are they there for? I can always trust her, and I am immensely grateful for that. When I'm feeling down on myself, it will always be her to tell me that I'm being unreasonable and I'm wrong. There's no price tag you can put on that.
#4 I want to thank THIS person for trust again, but in a different way. I can always trust her with any secret, that's true, but the trust I'm talking about is the trust that she has in me, which gives me confidence. She can tell me anything, and trust me with everything, and she know that. It makes me feel like I'm a good friend, a good person, and that's one of the most important things of all. In order to have a good friend, you should be one too. There are no words to describe my pride in being this person's friend. To know that she's in my life in the way that she is, is unimaginable and priceless. I can't explain it. Just thank you.
If you're reading this, and want to know who any of them are, just ask. I'll answer honestly. I don't lie. I can say way more about everyone that's on here, plus those people that aren't. I just wanted to express my emotions towards some amazing people. I hope you have people like this in your life. I hope I am a person like this in someone's life. If you do, I encourage you to tell them. Sometimes, complimenting people can be the best thing you could do, and just what they needed that day. Be a part of someone's life and make them happy they have you, by showing them that you're happy to have them. Tomorrow, you may not get to. Let them know today. It could mean everything to them.
Sometimes the best things in life are spontaneous. They come without planning, and catch you by surprise, but are even better in that way. It can take under a minute to make someone's day, or ruin it. It can take only a change of heart, mind, or direction to change someone's life.
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